In every turn of life’s events, there is a woman who stands firm against the tides of adversity. Carol Gilligan, a feminist and psychologist, describes a woman as a multifaceted being—a nurturer, a leader, a warrior, and a visionary.

 

Meet Aldie Mae Andoy, the Division Chief of Disaster Response. Before she became a leader, she was first a wife, a mother, and a woman whose life is a mosaic of resilience, authenticity, and compassion.

 

At work, she is known for making life-changing decisions—decisions that save lives, ensure the most vulnerable receive timely assistance, and guide her team with unwavering dedication.

 

Behind her bustling role at the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) Field Office Caraga, she steps into another equally demanding responsibility at home—one that requires the same level of patience, strength, and determination.

 

As a mother of three, Aldie Mae shares the joys and struggles many women face—balancing a demanding career with the needs of her children. Her youngest, Jessa, has been diagnosed with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and seizure disorder and is undergoing therapy. Meanwhile, she remains a hands-on mom to her son Aaron, an active Boy Scout, and her daughter Jahzara, an architecture student. With her husband working away from home, she shoulders the full weight of household responsibilities, embodying both strength and sacrifice.

 

For many, the demands of motherhood and leadership might feel overwhelming. But for Aldie Mae, these roles are not burdens—they are callings, honors, and privileges. She leads with the same strength and love she pours into her family, proving that a woman’s resilience is a force that fosters stability.

 

“To all the working and full-time mothers, I salute you! The journey is never easy, but for our children, we give our all. Amidst all the responsibilities, never forget that your well-being matters too. 𝗔 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗴𝗶𝗳𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆!” – Aldie Mae Andoy

 

To all mothers who find strength in service, to those who lead with both power and grace, and to the women who balance careers and family—Aldie Mae’s story is your story too.

Happy National Women’s Month!